GDK W32: More flexible modal operation mode

GDK W32: More flexible modal operation mode

Instead of using a boolean to indicate a modal operation being in progress,
use a set of flags, and allow these to be set and unset independently.

Specifically, this allows WM_CAPTURECHANGED handler to only act when a drag-move or
drag-resize modal operation is in progress, and ignore DND (which can also cause
WM_CAPTURECHANGED to be posted). This avoids a crash due to assertion failure when
OLE2 DND code tries to end a modal operation that was already ended by the WM_CAPTURECHANGED
handler.

(This commit is cherry-picked from the gtk-3-22 branch)

https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=786121